Pop Pop Epistle #36 – My Hezekiah Prayer


Dear Grandkids,

Today is my birthday. My 60th birthday to be exact. And as I celebrate today I am reminded of how blessed I am to be your Pop Pop and to get to spend these years in my older age with you. I am also reminded of a prayer that I began praying when your parents were about your age now. It is what I have come to call my Hezekiah Prayer.

2 Kings 20:1-6 says this about King Hezekiah, who was about 39 years old at the time.

In those days Hezekiah became sick and was at the point of death. And Isaiah the prophet the son of Amoz came to him and said to him, “Thus says the Lord, ‘Set your house in order, for you shall die; you shall not recover.’” Then Hezekiah turned his face to the wall and prayed to the Lord, saying, “Now, O Lord, please remember how I have walked before you in faithfulness and with a whole heart, and have done what is good in your sight.” And Hezekiah wept bitterly. And before Isaiah had gone out of the middle court, the word of the Lord came to him: “Turn back, and say to Hezekiah the leader of my people, Thus says the Lord, the God of David your father: I have heard your prayer; I have seen your tears. Behold, I will heal you. On the third day you shall go up to the house of the Lord, and I will add fifteen years to your life. 

When I was about 32 years old (1990), soon after Tucker was born, I began praying that the Lord would allow me 50 years of life. You see, my dad had died when he was only 42 so I was hoping to live for more than 10 years. I wasn’t trying to be greedy so I only asked for 18 more years. My thinking was this – in 18 years I would turn 50 and Tucker, our youngest, would be 18. By that time I would have had the majority of influence on my kid’s lives as they would be out of the house and making their own decisions by that time.

Fast forward to June 14, 2008. 18 years later. My 50th birthday was an awesome day. Not only did I celebrate half a century of life but I also walked Christy down the aisle to marry Chad and then officiated the rest of the wedding. And then 5 years later on November 17, 2012 Grayson was born. It was at this point that I began to get greedy. And my level of greediness elevated every time that one of you was born in subsequent years.

So here I am at 60 years of age. The Lord has already given me 10 more years than I originally asked for. And for that I am grateful. And my hope is that I still have another 20 years of good health so I can watch all of you grow into young men and women and so that I can write a lot more Pop Pop Epistles along the way.

But none of us are guaranteed tomorrow. And if I should anytime soon be “absent from the body but at home with the Lord” just know that I have been incredibly blessed and am incredibly grateful for all the years the Lord has given me. But if the Lord should choose to give me another 20 years then I hope that we can create lots of fun memories and that I can demonstrate for you a life that honors God and finds deep satisfaction in Him.

And by the way,  never ever forget that you are very loved,

Pop Pop

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Pop Pop Epistle #35: Happy Birthday Asher


Dear Asher,

Screen Shot 2018-06-04 at 1.41.01 PMA very very happy birthday #1 to you. It is joy to be your Pop Pop and it has been fun to watch you grow so much over the last year.

Since everybody is completely enthralled with your beautiful red hair and since your Instagram handle is LilRedReyner I thought I would tell you the story of Big Red.

It was on June 9 that Big Red forever etched his name in history. The year was 1973 (45 years ago today) and I was not quite 16 years old. But I still remember watching along with millions of others as he galloped his way to fame and glory.

Big Red was a horse. A magnificently beautiful animal with a gorgeous coat that was tinted red who was better known to the world as Secretariat.

Screen Shot 2018-06-04 at 12.58.40 PMHe became the first horse in 25 years to win the Triple Crown. And he did it in record setting fashion. Having already won The Kentucky Derby and The Preakness, it was on June 9 that he put an exclamation point on his greatness at The Belmont Stakes. Secretariat gave the finest performance of his career completing the 1.5-mile race in a record 2 minutes and 24 seconds, knocking nearly three seconds off the track record set by Gallant Man in 1957. He won by an astounding record-setting 31 lengths.

In 1999, ESPN ranked Secretariat No. 35 in its list of the Top 50 North American athletes of the 20th century, the only non-human on the list. That’s amazing.

What was the secret to his greatness? Big Red had a big heart. Literally. An autopsy upon his death showed that his heart was two and a half times larger than that of the average horse, which no doubt contributed to his extraordinary racing abilities.

This is my prayer for you. That God would give you a big heart.  And that God would fill that heart with a huge dose of compassion. And a tremendous amount of joy. And a prodigious helping of faith. And that your big heart would overflow such that others are mightily influenced and blessed by the spillover. Your nickname may be LilRed but I anticipate that the Lord will use you in big ways as you seek after Him.

Never ever forget that you are very very loved!

Pop Pop

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