Archive for the month “April, 2019”

Pop Pop Epistle #58 -About The Masters and Amen Corner


Dear Grandkids,

(8 years ago – soon after I started blogging – I wrote a similar post which I have updated and amended. None of you were born at that time)

Screen Shot 2019-04-15 at 1.50.48 PMYou may not know it yet but you will soon learn that I LOVE THE MASTERS. This year I got to show off the course and my love for the tournament to Scott, Mary, and Chad for Friday’s 2nd round.

I have realized that The Masters, and Amen Corner in particular, provides the perfect metaphor for my life. Let me explain….

I’ll start at #1. Standing on the first tee. Not knowing what to expect. I am full of hope that this could be one of the greatest rounds of my life. Such a thrill to even be able to stand there. But also very scary. Knowing that this is where the greats of golf have stood. Having seen for myself the pitfalls that lie ahead. Having seen people conquer the course and and be counted among the legends of Master’s history and having seen shipwrecks take place – also taking their place in Master’s history. What will this round hold for me?

What will this life hold for me?

So I have a choice from the get go. Do I play on knowing that it very well might not be pretty, but also knowing that there might be some great moments along the way, some memories to be made? Or do I say, “There’s no way I could ever play like those guys on TV so why even play at all.”

I choose to play! Just like I choose to live and try to conquer all the ups and downs of life. Expecting that life will at times be painful, but also enjoying the indescribable thrill of playing the game and waiting for that one shot, that one moment, that will energize me and keep me going. I endure the mundane so that I can enjoy the magnificent!

On to Amen Corner – which is the phrase coined to designate holes 11, 12, and 13 -because when you are finished playing them you breathe a prayer of relief.

First, hole #11. One of the hardest holes on the course. It demands that you start well if you want to finish well. It calls for courage and finesse and creativity. This is where Larry Mize broke Greg Norman’s heart in 1987 with an improbably 140 foot chip in from off the green to win the green jacket. The thrill of victory! The agony of the defeat! It is said that The Masters does not really even begin until the back nine of Sunday’s round. You have to survive 10, 11, and 12 to get to the 13, 14, and 15.

Life. Sometimes it is about surviving. And at times when we are just trying to stay alive… we thrive. I have found that it is often when I am in survival mode that God teaches me the most. He sharpens me. He shapes me. He prepares me to deal with the tough times of life and equips me to handle with humility the good times of life. But sometimes in life when things are tough… they just get tougher.

On to #12!

So here I am, standing on the tee box of one of the greatest golf holes in the world – #12 at Augusta National. It has been called the “hardest par 3 in the game of golf”. This is for several reasons…

1) The target is small and runs from east to west not north to south – which means that I must choose the right club if I have any chance of getting it on the green.

2) The swirling winds – The wind might be doing one thing on the tee box, but something completely different on the green. You just never know – and it could change between the time you hit the ball and the time that it lands back on planet earth. You just never know.

3) The crowds that are watching – everyone knows that if you are in the hunt on Sunday at the Masters that this little hole could very well define who wins and who loses. Everyone is watching. Everyone is holding their breath. Everyone is waiting to see how you will determine your destiny. You may not win the tournament on this one hole – but you could very well lose it.

4) The emotions created by the drama of the moment – I can only imagine how nervous I would be. Golf is a head game. You have to be able to control your emotions. You can’t think too much. You have to trust your swing and your game what “brung you” to this point.

A little history. In 1980 this is where Tom Weiskopf put 5 balls in the water and made a 13 in the first round. In 1992 this is where Fred Couples made a miraculous par after his ball semi-plugged into the bank above Rae’s Creek. This is where Tom Watson double bogeyed in 1991 costing him the tournament and losing to Ian Woosnam. In 1997, Tiger Woods came to the hole  with a ten-shot cushion. Despite his commanding lead, Woods couldn’t help but smile and then exhale once his tee shot found the green. This is where the pendulum swung in Tiger’s favor this year as Francesco Molinari put one in the drink and vaulted Tiger into a tie for the lead.

It is thrilling… yet scary! Beautiful… yet intimidating! Daunting… yet dangerous!

But this is life. It is thrilling. But it can be hard. It is scary but it can be fun. It is beautiful but it can turn ugly. But it is times like this when I feel most alive. It is times like this when memories are being made, when stories are being written. Mark Batterson said in one of his books a quote I have never forgotten, “We ought to live the kind of life that is worth telling stories about.” I like that. I like that a lot!

On to #13.

It is a hole where you can come away with eagle. but it is just as easy to come away with double bogey. It is a startlingly beautiful hole. The hundreds of azalea bushes providing a gorgeous backdrop to the perils that lurk just one shot away. In 2010 this is where Phil Mickelson took control of the tournament with his bold 2nd shot out of the pine straw, under the trees, over the creek, onto the green. It was a ridiculously amazing shot that captured in one moment what this hole is all about. Risk and Reward! In 1985, Curtis Strange came to #13 with a 3 stroke lead, went for the green with a 4-wood, hit into Rae’s Creek and wound up making bogey on his way to a back-nine collapse. He never won The Masters. Risk and Reward!

But isn’t that what makes life worth living. You can sit in the stands or you can play the game. If you choose to sit you can expect to experience life vicariously. But if you choose to play you can expect ups and downs, thrills and disappointments, joy and pain. But at the very least you will have some great stories to tell along the way.

Screen Shot 2019-04-15 at 2.11.37 PMThis year’s tournament was epic. Never to be forgotten. I could hear the Tiger roar way up here in North Carolina. You will watch people play 20 years from now who watched this year’s Masters and decided that golf was the game they wanted to pursue.

For me, The Masters is indeed a great metaphor for life. And it reminds me why the game of golf is such a great game – but even more importantly, why God created me to live a life of purposeful adventure. And why He did the same for you. I’m looking forward to watching your adventures play out over the years and hope to be a part of many of them.

Never forget that you are very loved!

Pop Pop

Screen Shot 2019-03-25 at 1.55.13 PM

Pop Pop Epistle #57 – About April Fool’s Day


Dear Grandkids,

Today is what is known as April Fool’s Day.

Supposedly back around the year 1700 a bunch of pranksters in England began playing practical jokes on one another. Somehow it became a tradition and on April 1 of every year you can usually expect to hear about somebody being fooled by a really good practical joke. Sometimes these jokes are funny. Sometimes, not so much.

Most people don’t really like to be the butt of another person’s joke. And nobody likes to be considered a fool. And yet, according to God’s Word there are a lot of foolish people out there. Check out these verses:

“The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, But a wise man is he who listens to counsel.” (Proverbs 12:15)

“The fool has said in his heart, “There is no God .” ” (Psalm 14:1)

“He who trusts in his own heart is a fool, But he who walks wisely will be delivered.” (Proverbs 28:26)

Therefore be careful how you walk, not as unwise men but as wise, making the most of your time, because the days are evil. So then do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is. (Ephesians 5:15-17)

One of my favorite quotes is by a man names Jim Elliot. Elliot was martyred in 1956 by the Auca Indians in Ecuador along with 4 of his friends as they sought to take the gospel to this unreached people group. He was 28 years old. He had written in his journal during his college days the following words:

“He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose.”

Ponder these words. Ask your mom and dad what they mean. When you get older talk about this quote with your friends and read the story of Jim Elliot’s life.

Put these words into practice and you will be nobody’s fool.

And never forget that you are very loved!

Pop Pop

Screen Shot 2019-03-25 at 1.55.13 PM

Post Navigation

%d bloggers like this: